6R專家把脈／管理自己 邁向溫拿第一步-----6R Experts feel the pulse / manage their own first step towards Wynners

6R專家把脈／管理自己 邁向溫拿第一步

【經濟日報╱顏長川】 2014.08.15 03:55 am

職場人士天天忙著管理主管、部屬、同儕、同業、供應商、顧客等，卻忘了管理自己。難怪彼得‧杜拉克(Peter Drucker)會說：「有偉大成就的人，向來都善於自我管理」；查爾斯‧韓第( Charles Handy)則有此一問：「你拿什麼定義自己？」對自己最起碼的負責就是對周遭的人最崇高的尊重。 管理自己之前，要先把「成功」定義清楚，然後再進行自我管理的三部曲—知道自己(Know Yourself)、做你自己(Be Yourself)、管理自己(Manage Yourself)。 很多人一輩子都活在父母的期望中，過著由別人定義的所謂成功人生；在別人的發號施令下，連自己都無法決定向左走或向右走。「成功」應該是從事有意義的工作去影響多少人、 幫助多少人？ 而不是世俗所謂的賺了多少錢、擁有多高的頭銜？ 如果能自己把成功的意義界定清楚，然後朝自己設定的目標努力，時時充實工作能力及累積工作經驗，提升附加價值，較容易邁向成功之路。 要「知道自己」最好的方法就是做SWOT分析，先充分釐清自己的強項(Strength)與弱項(Weakness)，掌握職場中的機會(Opportunity)與威脅(Threat)，再擬定應對進退的策略，就可找回事業發球權，勇敢去追夢，提早做自己的主人。 一個人在職場上，除了會做事和做人外，還要會「做你自己」。百度的李彥宏專做自己喜歡且擅長的事。很多專家學者都勸大家要打開周哈里窗(Johari window)說亮話！最好把隱藏我、盲目我、未知我統統都變成公開我。也就是說沒有什麼不能說的話或見不得人的事；或將威靈頓斗櫃（Wellington chest）兩個上鎖的抽屜撬開，別人不知的內容或自己的下意識都可攤在陽光下。其實就是主張「誠實面對自己，不要裝做不是自己」的意思。 任何人都要為自己負責，不把爛攤子丟給別人，要有快樂的能力；不自艾自怨，要照顧好自己的身心靈，不要別人為你擔心。廣告才子孫大偉的朋友在他的紀念本留下這樣一段話：「謝謝你把自己活得那麼精采 。因為你，我看到廣告界的美好和希望…」。 在1和0的數位科技裡，於on 和Off的理想生活中，如何取得工作與生活的平衡是一門顯學。清楚寫下人生目標，規劃詳細的行動方案，一生只做符合目標的行為，這就是所有成功者贏的秘訣。 有人以順口溜描繪百歲人生：「1歲出場亮相、10歲天天向上、20歲遠大理想、30歲基本定向、40歲處處吃香、50歲奮發圖強、60歲告老還鄉、70歲打打麻將、80歲曬曬太陽、90歲躺在床上、100歲掛在牆上」。 成功的人專做失敗者不願做的事，謹記：「自己就是最大的敵人 」。「管理自己」應是溫拿(Winner)或魯蛇(Loser)的關鍵所在吧！ （作者是哈佛企管專業講師，著有《做對6件事，打造高績效企業—老闆、主管、部屬必備的72訣》，企業團購請洽（02）8692-5735。） 【2014/08/15 經濟日報】@ http://udn.com/ http://udn.com/NEWS/FINANCE/FIN11/8872042.shtml 6R Experts feel the pulse / manage their own first step towards Wynners  [Economic Daily News ╱ Yanchang Chuan]  2014.08.15 03:55 am  Workplace every day is busy managing director, subordinates, peers, industry, suppliers, customers, etc., but forgot to govern themselves. ‧ No wonder Peter Drucker (Peter Drucker) will say: "There are great achievements of man, always have good self-management"; Charles ‧ Korea first (Charles Handy) then there is this question: to myself, "What can you define yourself?" At least that is responsible for the people around the highest respect.  Prior to manage yourself, to first "success" clearly defined, and then the self-management of the trilogy - know (Know Yourself), do yourself (Be Yourself), manage their own (Manage Yourself).  Many people live in a lifetime expectations of parents, the so-called live a successful life defined by others; under someone else's orders, you even can not decide to go left or go right. "Success" should be engaged in meaningful work to influence many people to help many people? Rather than the so-called secular how much money, how much has the title? If you can put yourself clearly define the meaning of success, and then toward the goal you set, constantly enrich the ability to work and accumulated experience, enhance the added value, relatively easy road to success.  To "know" the best way is to do SWOT analysis, to fully clarify their own strengths (Strength) and weaknesses (Weakness), grasp the opportunity in the workplace (Opportunity) and threats (Threat), and then retreat to develop coping strategies you can retrieve the right to serve the cause, courage to dream, early to do their own masters.  A person in the workplace, in addition to work and life, but also will "be yourself." Baidu's Robin Li designed to do things they like and are good at. Many experts tried to persuade everyone to open weeks Harry window (Johari window), said Liang words! Best to hide me, blind me, all I have become publicly known me. That is not to say there is nothing shameful or something; Drawers or Wellington (Wellington chest) to pry open two locked drawers, others do not know the content or your own subconscious can stand in the sun. In fact, advocated "honest with yourself, do not pretend not their" meaning.  Any person must be responsible for themselves, do not mess left to others, the ability to have fun; not self-Ai-hatred, to take care of your body and mind, do not you worry about other people. Advertising genius Sun Dawei friends at his memorial this leave this to say: "Thank you so wonderful to live his life because of you, I saw the advertising industry and hope ... beautiful.."  1's and 0's of digital technology, the ideal of life on and Off, how to strike a balance between work and life is a school of learning. Write down clear goals in life, planning a detailed action plan, and his only consistent with the behavior of the target, which is the secret of all successful win.  Someone with jingle depicting hundred life: "one-year-old debut appearance, 10 years old every day, 20-year-old lofty ideals, the basic orientation of 30-year-old, 40-year-old popular everywhere, 50-year-old hard work, 60-year-old retire and return home, 70-year-old playing mahjong, 80-year-old sun, 90-year-old lying in bed, 100-year-old hanging on the wall. " Successful people do what losers do not want to do special things in mind: "he is the greatest enemy." "Manage their own" should be Wynners (Winner) or Lu snake (Loser) key to it!  (The author is a lecturer at Harvard Business Professional, author of "doing something for six, to create high-performance businesses - owners, managers, subordinates the necessary 72 tactic.", Corporate Customers, please contact (02) 8692-5735)  [2014/08/15 Economic Daily News] @ http://udn.com/  http://udn.com/NEWS/FINANCE/FIN11/8872042.shtml